When someone we love or care about is facing an “unplanned pregnancy,” we often feel the urge to help and want them to make the “right” decision. However, what they need most may not be advice, but rather a safe space and understanding.
Things to Do
- Listen without judgment Listen to them attentively, without rushing or pressuring them to make a quick decision.
- Provide accurate information Guide them to access safe information sources or services, such as RSA Online.
- Ask what kind of help they need Some people just need someone by their side, not answers.
- Encourage them and reassure them that they don’t have to face it alone Show that you will be there, no matter what their choice is.
Things to Avoid
- Don’t say “You shouldn’t have gotten pregnant in the first place” or “Didn’t I tell you?”
- Don’t pressure them to do what you think is best.
- Don’t assume for them whether they should terminate or keep it.
Being an “understanding companion” is the best support during this time.
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