When facing an unplanned pregnancy, it is not just a matter for the woman alone but a shared responsibility of both partners. This decision requires careful consideration, taking all factors into account, and choosing the best possible option.
1. Stay Calm and Give Yourself Time
- Do not make decisions out of fear or external pressure.
- Take time to assess the situation and consider potential consequences.
- Seek accurate information from reliable sources.
2. Questions for Women to Consider
- How do I feel about this pregnancy?
- Am I physically and emotionally ready to raise a child?
- Does my life plan allow for me to become a mother at this time?
- How much support do I have from my partner, family, and those around me?
- Are other options, such as adoption or safe abortion, suitable for me?
3. Questions for Men to Consider
- Am I ready to take responsibility for this situation?
- Am I fully supporting my partner?
- Have I listened to my partner’s feelings and needs?
- How can I help emotionally, financially, and with future caregiving?
- Do I understand the impact of this pregnancy on my partner and our future child?
4. Consider All Available Options
Both parties should thoroughly evaluate their choices:
- Continue the pregnancy and raise the child, assessing overall readiness.
- Consider adoption or foster care if unable to raise the child.
- Opt for a safe abortion, ensuring knowledge of rights and access to safe services.
5. Consult Experts and Seek Trusted Advice
- Do not go through this alone—consult doctors, psychologists, or support organizations.
- Openly discuss your feelings with a trusted person to gain valuable guidance.
6. Know Your Rights and Available Services
- Unplanned Pregnancy Hotline: 1663 – Free, confidential, and safe consultations.
- RSA Online Consultation System:https://abortion.rsathai.org
- Line Official: @rsathai
- Facebook Inbox: RSATHAI
Final Thoughts
There is no single “right” answer for everyone, but there is an option that is best for you. Take your time, gather information, and choose the path you feel most prepared for.